求人帮忙的句子 求人的句子( 二 )


inkMacSystemFont, "Segoe UI", Roboto, Ubuntu, "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, Arial, "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", "Source Han Sans CN", sans-serif; WHITE-SPACE: normal; WORD-SPACING: 0px; TEXT-TRANSFORM: none; FONT-WEIGHT: 400; COLOR: rgb(38,38,38); FONT-STYLE: normal; MARGIN: 0px 0px 20px; ORPHANS: 2; WIDOWS: 2; LETTER-SPACING: normal; LINE-HEIGHT: 1.8; BACKGROUND-COLOR: rgb(255,255,255); TEXT-INDENT: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px; text-decoration-style: initial; text-decoration-color: initial'>二、见好就收,该闭嘴时就闭嘴
inkMacSystemFont, "Segoe UI", Roboto, Ubuntu, "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, Arial, "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", "Source Han Sans CN", sans-serif; WHITE-SPACE: normal; WORD-SPACING: 0px; TEXT-TRANSFORM: none; FONT-WEIGHT: 400; COLOR: rgb(38,38,38); FONT-STYLE: normal; MARGIN: 0px 0px 20px; ORPHANS: 2; WIDOWS: 2; LETTER-SPACING: normal; LINE-HEIGHT: 1.8; BACKGROUND-COLOR: rgb(255,255,255); TEXT-INDENT: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px; text-decoration-style: initial; text-decoration-color: initial'>嘴是用来吃饭,说话的,除此之这外别无它用,但偏偏有许多不该发生的事都是出自于这里……所谓祸从口出,只有口风紧的人,才能获得别人的信任 。
inkMacSystemFont, "Segoe UI", Roboto, Ubuntu, "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, Arial, "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", "Source Han Sans CN", sans-serif; WHITE-SPACE: normal; WORD-SPACING: 0px; TEXT-TRANSFORM: none; FONT-WEIGHT: 400; COLOR: rgb(38,38,38); FONT-STYLE: normal; MARGIN: 0px 0px 20px; ORPHANS: 2; WIDOWS: 2; LETTER-SPACING: normal; LINE-HEIGHT: 1.8; BACKGROUND-COLOR: rgb(255,255,255); TEXT-INDENT: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px; text-decoration-style: initial; text-decoration-color: initial'>每个人都喜欢别人认为自己聪明,有才华,有能力,因此,很多人言谈举止之间,总是会有意无意显示一下自己某方面的优势 。如果是一般情况下,和同事、朋友交往,这样做也无大碍,但在求人办事时,却要懂得慎言守拙的厚黑之道,如非必要,就是要让自己处于“弱势”地位,这样才符合你求人的身份 。相反,若是蓄意显能,一味夸夸其谈,不懂得管好自己的嘴巴,该闭嘴时不闭嘴,尽管能显示出自己的聪明,但却也容易引起别人的警惕和反感,容易得罪人 。所以,求人办事,把该说的话说清,或者暗示清了,就可以及时闭嘴了,剩下的就是符合别人的心意 。
inkMacSystemFont, "Segoe UI", Roboto, Ubuntu, "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, Arial, "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", "Source Han Sans CN", sans-serif; WHITE-SPACE: normal; WORD-SPACING: 0px; TEXT-TRANSFORM: none; FONT-WEIGHT: 400; COLOR: rgb(38,38,38); FONT-STYLE: normal; MARGIN: 0px 0px 20px; ORPHANS: 2; WIDOWS: 2; LETTER-SPACING: normal; LINE-HEIGHT: 1.8; BACKGROUND-COLOR: rgb(255,255,255); TEXT-INDENT: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px; text-decoration-style: initial; text-decoration-color: initial'>三、先“捧”后求,求人办事要不吝赞美
inkMacSystemFont, "Segoe UI", Roboto, Ubuntu, "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, Arial, "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", "Source Han Sans CN", sans-serif; WHITE-SPACE: normal; WORD-SPACING: 0px; TEXT-TRANSFORM: none; FONT-WEIGHT: 400; COLOR: rgb(38,38,38); FONT-STYLE: normal; MARGIN: 0px 0px 20px; ORPHANS: 2; WIDOWS: 2; LETTER-SPACING: normal; LINE-HEIGHT: 1.8; BACKGROUND-COLOR: rgb(255,255,255); TEXT-INDENT: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px; text-decoration-style: initial; text-decoration-color: initial'>所谓“捧”就是厚黑学中的“恭”字诀的要义,也就是在求人办事,要能恰到好处、实事求是的赞美别人,这种赞美并不是那种漫无边际、肉麻的吹捧、拍马屁 。这个世界上,任何人的心里都不会拒绝别人的赞美,所以,求人办事时先多说点对方乐意听的话,尤其是顺便与所求的事有关的方面称赞对方一下,然后才是说具体的求人办事的内容,如此,往往有水到渠成的效果 。