inkMacSystemFont, "Segoe UI", Roboto, Ubuntu, "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, Arial, "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", "Source Han Sans CN", sans-serif; WHITE-SPACE: normal; WORD-SPACING: 0px; TEXT-TRANSFORM: none; FONT-WEIGHT: 400; COLOR: rgb(38,38,38); FONT-STYLE: normal; MARGIN: 0px 0px 20px; ORPHANS: 2; WIDOWS: 2; LETTER-SPACING: normal; LINE-HEIGHT: 1.8; BACKGROUND-COLOR: rgb(255,255,255); TEXT-INDENT: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px; text-decoration-style: initial; text-decoration-color: initial'>王夷甫(王衍)曾嘱咐一位族人办事,但对方过了很久也没有办 。一次,王夷甫在一个宴会上碰到了那个人,于是就对他说:“之前我嘱咐你办的那件事,你怎么到现在还没办呢?”族人听完非常生气,举起手中的食盆摔在王夷甫脸上,王夷甫一句话也没有说,洗完脸,拉着王导的胳膊,和他一起乘车离去 。在车上,王夷甫照了照镜子,说:“你看我的眼光,简直高过牛背” 。(注:牛背是通常牛被鞭打的地方,王夷甫的话是指自己不计较挨打受辱之类的小事 。)
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inkMacSystemFont, "Segoe UI", Roboto, Ubuntu, "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, Arial, "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", "Source Han Sans CN", sans-serif; WHITE-SPACE: normal; WORD-SPACING: 0px; TEXT-TRANSFORM: none; FONT-WEIGHT: 400; COLOR: rgb(38,38,38); FONT-STYLE: normal; MARGIN: 0px 0px 20px; ORPHANS: 2; WIDOWS: 2; LETTER-SPACING: normal; LINE-HEIGHT: 1.8; BACKGROUND-COLOR: rgb(255,255,255); TEXT-INDENT: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px; text-decoration-style: initial; text-decoration-color: initial'>谢太傅盘桓东山时,与孙兴公诸人泛海戏 。风起浪涌,孙、王诸人色并遽,便唱使还 。太傅神情方王,吟啸不言 。舟人以公貌闲意说,犹去不止 。既风转急,浪猛,诸人皆喧动不坐 。公徐云:“如此,将无归!”众人即承响而回 。于是审其量,足以镇安朝野 。